If you don't ask, the answer will always be a NO! A flat out NO. If you ask, there's a 50% chance that the answer will be a YES. It is very easy for us to take the safe side, the side that doesn't hurt our precious little ego, the side that doesn't hurt our measly little feelings. Let me give you a taste of this truth juice for a second. If you have to get to a destination, chances are, you will have to ask for other people's help and/or permission to do so. Do not be afraid of failure, it keeps you going and it gives you tough skin. And let me tell you, in every profession, in life in general, tough skin is a wonderful prerequisite to have on your life resume. Life will suck, you will probably fail, you will probably fall a million times before you land on your feet and that is perfectly okay. I remember when I was a teenager and I use to think that life started and ended in that moment. Whenever anything went wrong, I felt like it was the end of my world. Everyone can probably relate to this one way or another. But then I look back and I laugh at how insignificant the things we were worrying about was. The point is, we will be fine. Whether its that you did not get the promotion you asked for, your significant other said she will NOT marry you(sorry!), you will be fine. There will always be other opportunities and certainly other lovers. Take the leap of faith today and go after what you want.
Happy Sunday lovers, snuggle and stay blessed today.